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DECEMBER 9, 2018 – Second Sunday of Advent

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DECEMBER 9, 2018

Second Sunday of Advent

“Prepare the way of the Lord, make straight His paths.”

Immaculate Conception Novena

(Pray the following prayers for 9 days in a row)

O most pure Virgin Mary conceived without sin, from the very first instant, you were entirely immaculate. O glorious Mary full of grace, you are the mother of my God – the Queen of Angels and of men. I humbly venerate you as the chosen mother of my Savior, Jesus Christ.

The Prince of Peace and the Lord of Lords chose you for the singular grace and honor of being His beloved mother. By the power of His Cross, He preserved you from all sin. Therefore, by His power and love, I have hope and bold confidence in your prayers for my holiness and salvation.

I pray that your prayers will bring me to imitate your holiness and submission to Jesus and the Divine Will.

Now, Queen of Heaven, I beg you to beg my Savior to grant me these requests…  (Mention your intentions)

My holy Mother, I know that you were obedient to the will of God. In making this petition, I know that God’s will is more perfect than mine. So, grant that I may receive God’s grace with humility like you.

As my final request, I ask that you pray for me to increase in faith in our risen Lord; I ask that you pray for me to increase in hope in our risen Lord; I ask that you pray for me to increase in love for the risen Jesus!

Hail Mary…


You are in my daily prayers.

God bless you,

Fr. Nick VanDenBroeke

DECEMBER 2, 2018 – First Sunday of Advent

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DECEMBER 2, 2018

First Sunday of Advent

 “Be vigilant at all times and pray that you have the strength to escape the tribulations that are imminent and to stand before the Son of Man.”


The Seven Pillars of Catholic Spirituality

This month’s Lighthouse CD is The Seven Pillars of Catholic Spirituality by Matthew Kelly.

This is a very inspiring talk about the basics of living the Catholic faith.  In this CD, Matthew explains seven of the “pillars” of our faith, and why they are so important.  This talk will help re-energize your spiritual life, and help you learn practical ways to incorporate the seven pillars into your everyday life.

If it would be easier for you to listen to this (or any other Lighthouse CD talk) as an MP3, rather than on CD, please talk to me.


Other Advent thoughts…

Confessions will be available on the four Sundays of Advent between the 8am and 10am Masses (so approximately 9:10 – 9:50am).  I wanted to make it easy for people to be able to stay after Mass or come early to Mass and go to confession during this wonderful season of preparing for the coming of Christ.

We are also adding a few weekday evening Masses during Advent.  I encourage you to come as a family after work and school.  The dates of our evening Masses are:

Tuesday, December 4th – 6pm

Tuesday, December 11th – 6pm

Thursday, December 20th – 6pm

If you do not yet have an Advent calendar, I encourage you to grab one from the back of church.  These calendars have one short scripture verse for each day leading up to Christmas.  I especially encourage using these if you still have children at home.

Advent wreaths are another wonderful way to celebrate this season.  Lighting one candle each week leading up to Christmas helps us grow in anticipation for the coming of Christ, the Light of the World.

You are in my daily prayers.

God bless you,

Fr. Nick VanDenBroeke

NOVEMBER 11th, 2018 – 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

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NOVEMBER 11th, 2018

32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Veteran’s Day


“Amen, I say to you, this poor widow put in more than all the other contributors to the treasury.”




Veteran’s Day

I want to keep today’s column short and simply thank all the veterans who have served our country, especially any veterans in our parish.

I myself have several family members and friends who are serving or have served in the military. And am so grateful for their service by which we are protected and kept free.

Please say a prayer today for all veterans, and all those currently serving in our military.

From the bottom of my heart: Thank you to all our veterans.



You are in my daily prayers.

God bless you,

Fr. Nick VanDenBroeke


NOVEMBER 4th, 2018 – 31st Sunday in Ordinary Time

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NOVEMBER 4th, 2018

31st Sunday in Ordinary Time

“You are not far from the Kingdom of God.”


The Best Way to Live

This month’s Lighthouse CD is The Best Way to Live by Matthew Kelly.

How is the best way to live?  Is there a best way to live?  The great minds of every age have pondered this question.

No one wants to live a mediocre life with little to no meaning.  We all want to live a wonderful life, full of meaning.  The question is, are you living your best life?

In this CD, Matthew Kelly powerfully articulates how we can discover the best way to live.  He helps us reflect on how we make decisions in all areas of our lives, and how these decisions help us become the amazing person God created us to be.

In particular, there is one essential question that Matthew talks about that he learned to ask in his own life and is the most important question we can ask in order to find the best way to live.  You’ll have to listen to find out what that question is.

This talk was recorded at a gathering of confirmation candidates, but while Matthew Kelly addresses them specifically, the wisdom he gives is something we can all learn from.


You are in my daily prayers.

God bless you,

Fr. Nick VanDenBroeke

OCTOBER 21st, 2018 – 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

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OCTOBER 21st, 2018

29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

World Mission Sunday


“For the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve and give his life as ransom for many.”


The Priesthood Series

Article 8 – Priestly Celibacy (Part 3)

Note: The previous articles in this series are posted on our parish website.

     Celibacy is truly a sacrifice in “making oneself that way” as Jesus describes.  In fact, far from running from sexual contact and marriage out of fear, the one who embraces “celibacy for the sake of the kingdom of heaven” must do so by understanding the goodness and value of what he is giving up, what he is sacrificing.  We don’t sacrifice things to God that are bad; we sacrifice things that are good.  If marriage and sex were dirty or defiling, then giving it up would be a duty, not a sacrifice.  That clearly not being the case, celibacy becomes a sacrificial offering as a celibate offers his body “as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God” (Romans 12:1).

As mentioned previously, the motivation for voluntary celibacy flows from a desire for the “Kingdom of Heaven” and “for the Lord”.  In short, the foundation of celibacy, its primary inspiration, is love for God and service of his Kingdom.  This is the same as the foundation for the priesthood itself: Love for God and his Kingdom.  And the priest and the celibate desire to serve God and his Kingdom with his whole life.  This is the missionary or apostolic dimension of celibacy, since it is “For the Kingdom of Heaven”.

A friend of mine once said to me: “Without the Eucharist, celibacy is pointless”.  In other words, a celibate must have a deep union with Christ, and see himself as participating in the “heavenly marriage” (cf. Revelation 19 and 21).  This union is most fully lived in this world through our union with Christ in the Eucharist.

This is the prophetic dimension of celibacy, that it is a prophetic sign to the world of our ultimate calling, which is complete and perfect union with God himself.  As Jesus says, “In the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like the angels”.  “Like the angels” meaning in a perfect union with God.  This union with God is also described in the scriptures as a “marriage”, but the difference is that it is a spiritual union with God, not a physical union with another person.  There is no human marriage in heaven because there is only one marriage in heaven: Christ and the Church.  And the celibate person is a sign already in this world of this future marital union in heaven.

In conclusion, the practice of priestly celibacy is a very good and important discipline of the Church.  It is good on a practical level, and especially good on a spiritual level, as the celibate is a sign to the world of our future union with God himself in heaven, where there is no “marrying or giving of marriage”.  But there is a perfect marital union of Christ and his bride, the Church, of which we are all a part.

Perhaps the best summary of celibacy is in this quote from the Second Vatican Council’s document Prefectae Caritatis:

“Chastity ‘for the sake of the kingdom of heaven’ (Mt 19:12), which religious profess, must be esteemed as an exceptional gift of grace.  It uniquely frees the hearts of men and women (see 1 Cor 7:32-35), so that they become more fervent in love for God and for all humanity.  For this reason it is a special symbol of heavenly benefits, and for religious it is a most effective way of dedicating themselves wholeheartedly to the divine service and the works of the apostolate.  Thus, for all Christ’s faithful, religious recall that wonderful marriage made by God which will be fully manifested in the age to come, and in which the Church has Christ alone for her spouse.”

I can testify that I have experienced this “gift” of celibacy in my own life, and thus, I for one, would never change this important discipline of the Church.  Celibacy does not take away my freedom, rather, it enables me to love more freely.  It truly is a gift of the Spirit, for “Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom”.

Sources for additional reading:

The Charism of Priestly Celibacy – Edited by John C. Cavadini

Theology of the Body – Pope John Paul II


You are in my daily prayers.

God bless you,    Fr. Nick VanDenBroeke

OCTOBER 14th, 2018 – 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time

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OCTOBER 14th, 2018

28th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Clergy Appreciation Sunday


“How hard it is for those who have wealth to enter the kingdom of God!”


Introduction of our Teaching Parish Seminarian

I am very happy to announce that we have been assigned a seminarian, Mitchel McLaughlin, from the St. Paul Seminary to participate in and learn from our parish over the next four years as he prepares to be ordained a priest.  He will be joining us for weekend Masses once a month, and will be down at the parish one day each week to be involved in many different aspects of parish life, such as faith formation, Holy Cross School, parish meetings, etc.  I am very happy to welcome Mitchel to our parish, and I hope you will get to know him over the next four years.

(The following is an introduction by Mitchel)

Hello Immaculate Conception Parishioners! My name is Mitchell McLaughlin. I am a seminarian studying to be a priest for the Diocese of Sioux Falls, South Dakota. I am in my first year of Theology studies at the Saint Paul Seminary School of Divinity. Part of the program of education at the seminary includes practical pastoral experience at a parish within the Archdiocese. I have been blessed to be assigned to Immaculate Conception.

 A little about myself. I grew up in Bettendorf, Iowa (one of the Quad-Cities) with my parents and two brothers. My father works at the John Deere corporate headquarters, my mother is a dental hygienist, my older brother is army doctor in residency for psychiatry at Walter Reed Hospital, and my younger brother studies Microbiology at Iowa State University.

 I attended Catholic grade school till 8th grade then transferred to the public high school. I chose to attend the University of South Dakota after high school. It was there that my faith came alive and I started to take my life seriously through the Catholic Church’s presence on campus. Among the subjects I studied before I entered seminary were Medical Laboratory Science, Secondary Education, and English; however, in all of these areas of study I was not at peace and knew that God was calling me to something more. After studying at the university for 3 years I chose to become a seminarian for the Diocese of Sioux Falls and entered the St. John Vianney Seminary. I attended the St. John Vianney Seminary for another 3 years (that’s 6 years total of undergraduate), there I grew much in prayer, in relationship with God, and as a man.

I love talking about how God is present in our everyday lives. A few of my hobbies are reading, hiking, being with friends, and eating good food. Know that all of you are in my prayers and I look forward to getting to know you all over the course of the 4 years of my seminary studies. Please pray for me as I continue to follow God’s will.


On a separate note, I will be gone this week as I am traveling to Washington DC with our Holy Cross 7th and 8th graders.  Please keep us in your prayers for a great trip and safe travels.

You are in my daily prayers.

God bless you,

Fr. Nick VanDenBroeke


September 30, 2018 – 26th Sunday in Ordinary Time

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September 30, 2018

26th Sunday in Ordinary Time

  “Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better if a great millstone were put around his neck and he was thrown into the sea.”

The Priesthood Series

Article 7 – Priestly celibacy (Part 2)

In the last article I began a discussion on the discipline of priestly celibacy and said that it is both practical and theological.

Celibacy is practical in that it would be very difficult to fulfill all the necessary functions of priesthood and also have time for a family.  The priesthood is not simply a job that one can leave from at 5pm and have weekends off.  Rather, the priesthood has great demands on time.

Additionally, as St. Paul says: “The unmarried man is anxious about the affairs of the Lord, how to please the Lord; but the married man is anxious about worldly affairs, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided” (1 Corinthians 7:32-34).

This text is a very practical statement, that the man who is unmarried can be about the affairs of the Lord rather than of the world.  But it also makes a very important change in the focus of the celibate life, namely, celibacy is not simply “For the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven” (a cause), but for “the Lord” (a person).  And this must be the fundamental reason for priestly celibacy, that it is done out of love for a person, Christ the Lord.  Thus the celibate can say, “My soul is in love with Jesus Christ.  Let others contribute to the preservation of the human race.”

And this leads us to the deeper theological meaning of celibacy.  Celibacy is a sign of our future union with Christ in heaven.  It is a participation here and now in the heavenly marriage of Christ and the Church.

Fr. Reniero Cantalamessa, in an essay on priestly celibacy, writes:

What is needed, therefore, is a complete reversal of our mind-set, and this can happen only through renewed contact with the biblical and theological roots of this state of life.”

Thus, rather than asking, “What does the culture say about celibacy?”, we need to ask, “What do God and the Scriptures say about celibacy?”.

Most fundamentally, the link between priesthood and celibacy is established in Christ himself.  It is indisputable (despite unhistorical Dan Brown type stories) that Jesus was unmarried.  Thus, the link between priesthood and celibacy was established first in Christ himself, who is our “high priest” and the archetype of all priests.  Thus, it cannot be “unnatural” or foreign to the idea of priesthood for a man to be celibate.

As Pope Benedict XVI wrote in Sacramentum Caritatis, “The fact that Christ himself, the eternal priest, lived his mission even to the sacrifice of the Cross in the state of virginity constitutes the sure point of reference for understanding the meaning of the tradition of [priestly celibacy in] the Latin Church.”

The two motives of Christ’s celibacy are: Spiritual engendering (rather than begetting human children), and universality of love (because Jesus does not have his own family he is free to love every individual as his own).

To be continued…


You are in my daily prayers.

God bless you,

Fr. Nick VanDenBroeke

September 23, 2018 – 25th Sunday in Ordinary Time

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September 23, 2018

25th Sunday in Ordinary Time

  “Whoever receives one child such as this in my name receives me; and whoever receives me, receives not only me but the One who sent me.”


Note: After taking a few weeks off, this week’s column continues a series of articles I have written on the priesthood. The previous articles in this series are posted on our parish website.

The Priesthood Series

Article 6 – Priestly celibacy (Part 1)

One of the biggest challenges to the priesthood today is the discipline of priestly celibacy.  Priestly celibacy is not a doctrine of the Church, but rather, a discipline.  This means that it could be changed (indeed we already have a few exceptions to the rule in special cases of married priests).  However, I want to show why this discipline should not be changed in the universal practice of the Church.

The teaching on celibacy is nothing new, it is written about all over the New Testament.  Jesus and St. Paul were both not only celibate themselves, but taught very clearly on this discipline:

As Jesus says: “There are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. He who is able to receive this, let him receive it” (Matthew 19:12).

And St. Paul says: “I wish that all were as I myself am (i.e. unmarried).  But each has his own special gift from God” (1 Corinthians 7:7).

Nevertheless, there are many objections that we hear against priestly celibacy, such as: “It’s unnatural,” “It leads to sexual disorders,” and, “Changing the teaching on celibacy would solve our vocation crisis.”  However, the fact is that none of these claims are true.

We can agree that celibacy is not a “natural” desire, however, Christ and St. Paul have shown us that it is super-natural, and that it is a gift to be received from God (cf. 1 Cor 7:7 and Matt 19:12 above).

It has been shown that celibacy is not the cause of sexual disorders, but rather a catalyst of illicit sexual behavior for those who already have a sexual disorder before making a vow of celibacy.  So we need to help people find sexual integrity, not do away with celibacy.

Additionally, in the short term it may solve our vocation crisis, but not in the long term.  Indeed, imagine what the face of the Catholic Church would be like if hundreds of thousands of men and women had not “renounced home, spouse, and children” for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven.  The proclamation of the Gospel and the Church’s mission has rested primarily on their shoulders.  So our priest shortage might be helped in the short term by married priests, but not in the long term.

Rather, the cause of our current shortage of priests flows, not from the discipline of celibacy, but from a loss of priestly identity and the loss of the value of the priesthood.  In fact, the majority of young priests in my generation would not choose marriage even if celibacy became optional, because we understand both the practical implications, and especially the theological implications of this change.  (See previous articles on priestly identity, and also the next articles on celibacy.)

To be continued…

You are in my daily prayers.

God bless you,

Fr. Nick VanDenBroeke

September 16, 2018 – 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time

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September 16, 2018

24th Sunday in Ordinary Time


“For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and that of the gospel will save it.”


The Lord’s Day as the Center of our Christian Life

The third commandment of the Decalogue is “Remember to keep holy the Sabbath day” (Exodus 20:8).  As the Catechism says:

In speaking of the Sabbath Scripture recalls creation: ‘For in six days the LORD made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that is in them, and rested the seventh day; therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and hallowed it.’”  (CCC 2169)

Scripture also reveals in the Lord’s day a memorial of Israel’s liberation from bondage in Egypt: ‘You shall remember that you were a servant in the land of Egypt, and the Lord your God brought you out thence with mighty hand and outstretched arm; therefore the Lord your God commanded you to keep the Sabbath day.’” (2170)

Just as the Israelites were liberated from slavery in Egypt, and were instructed to keep one day each week as a day to remember God’s mercy shown to them, how much more do we as Christians, who have been liberated from our sins by the blood of Christ, need to take a day to remember and give thanks to God for his mercy?

God entrusted the Sabbath to Israel to keep as a sign of the irrevocable covenant.  The Sabbath is for the Lord, holy and set apart for the praise of God, his work of creation, and his saving actions on behalf of Israel.”  (2171)

Again, how much more do we as Christians, who have been made part of the “new and eternal covenant” in Christ, need to keep the Lord’s day holy for the praise of God?

Jesus rose from the dead ‘on the first day of the week.’  Because it is the ‘first day,’ the day of Christ’s Resurrection recalls the first creation.  Because it is the ‘eight day’ following the Sabbath, it symbolizes the new creation ushered in by Christ’s Resurrection.  For Christians it has become the first of all days, the first of all feasts, the Lord’s Day – Sunday.”  (2174)

The Sunday celebration of the Lord’s Day and his Eucharist is at the heart of the Church’s life.”  (2177)

This practice of the Christian assembly dates from the beginnings of the apostolic age.  The Letter to the Hebrews reminds the faithful ‘not to neglect to meet together, as is the habit of some, but to encourage one another.’”  (2178)

As I have reflected and prayed about this importance of the Lord’s day, it has really been on my heart how important the weekly Mass is—not only in the regular life of the parish, but especially in preparation for receiving the sacraments of initiation (baptism, first communion, and confirmation).

For this reason, I have decided to begin requiring attendance at weekend Mass as an essential preparation for receiving the sacraments.  This will ensure that the child is taking seriously his or her sacramental preparation.  If we do not form a habit of living the Catholic life before receiving the sacraments, it rarely happens that this habit is formed later in life.  Thus, if a family does not make weekend Mass a priority, it will be determined that the child has not been properly prepared to receive the sacrament, and he or she will have to repeat the sacramental preparation year the following year.

Included in today’s bulletin is a copy of the letter I am sending home with all our parish families with children.  My hope is that this new emphasis on attending weekly Mass will help assist parents in helping their children know and love the Lord, and form a lifelong habit of gathering with the parish community and celebrating the Lord’s Day.

You are in my daily prayers.

God bless you,

Fr. Nick VanDenBroeke



September 2, 2018 -22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

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September 2, 2018

22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time


 “This people honors me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.”

Seven Reasons to be Catholic

This month’s Lighthouse CD is Seven Reasons to be Catholic by Dr. Peter Kreeft.

Why should someone be Catholic when they could be anything else?  Most of us were born into a Catholic family, and that’s a wonderful thing.  But what if you had been born into a family with a different faith?  Maybe Lutheran.  Or Muslim.  Would there be any reason to consider becoming Catholic?  Or perhaps more importantly, why should you stay Catholic?

When it comes down to it, the question shouldn’t be “what religion was I born into”, but rather, “is it true?”  This is the only reason why someone should become Catholic or remain a Catholic, because it’s true.

Dr. Peter Kreeft is a world-renowned philosopher and best-selling author of over 35 books.  In my opinion—having read several of his books and listened to several of his talks—I think he is one of the best thinkers and clearest teachers in the Catholic world today.

In this CD, Dr. Kreeft articulates with great clarity seven reasons why anyone would want to become or remain a Catholic.  He draws from the treasured wisdom of such great spiritual thinkers as St. John of the Cross, St. Thomas Aquinas, C. S. Lewis, and Cardinal Newman.  He helps us to understand why the truth about God is so essential, and how it is found in the Catholic Church.

It is a very convincing talk on why everyone should be Catholic.

If it would be easier for you to listen to this (or any other Lighthouse CD talk) as an MP3, rather than on CD, please talk to me.


You are in my daily prayers.

God bless you,

Fr. Nick VanDenBroeke